3 Magic Words We May Rarely Use

As time goes by, the faster the earth rotates the more changes that occur in it. Maybe a lot of changes have happened to us in recent years, maybe we were a few years ago just an employee who worked for another company, but now it's an entrepreneur who has a business that has dozens of employees.

Along with many changes in this world make ourselves also become changed. Change in view, in thought and also in nature and behavior. Perhaps all the changes that exist do not necessarily move to the positive, sometimes unwittingly we move from something positive slowly to the less good.

Actually a lot of good values that from us are still small even when still sitting in kindergarten has been taught. These values are one of them in the "3 magic words" that can make our lives much calmer in living life.

Here are 3 magic words that we may have rarely used.

1. Please

As we know, we live in this world not alone, all the activities on earth that we step on today, inhabited by humans who live in need of other humans. If we want to meet our needs and only others can meet that, we certainly ask him to help us.

The word "please" is usually used to ask someone to do something we want. But as we have everything many people depend on us, we are reluctant to use this word help, whereas this word please better reflects our humility and shows that we are not careless in governing people.

Surely the person we ask for help by using the word help will be lighter to accept our request, regardless of whether or not the person fulfills our will, at least we appreciate the person we ask for help and be a humble person when asking for help.

2. Sorry

The word "sorry" may be synonymous with a mistake, the word sorry is a beautiful word, a word that shows the sincerity of our hearts that express regret for our mistakes. The less here we use this word, whether the world is too cavalier that this word we rarely find.

Man begins to feel himself the truest and greatest, feeling the most authoritative and powerful. But man is wrong, no human being escapes from wrong. I see people who don't want to use the word sorry are people who want to look perfect who want to look great.

Remember a humble and gentle person admits his mistake is a noble person, never assume only small people use the word sorry.

3. Thank You

The word "Thank you" is a word that shows the appreciation that is in us for the person who helped us or the person who gave something. Thank you is a sign that we are grateful for everything good that befalls us.

But have we ever thanked the gas station attendant, or the parking attendant at the mini market? Sometimes we forget there are little people helping us, we assume they are doing their job so there is no need to be rewarded with a thank you.

But have you ever said thank you when your client is satisfied with the results of your work, surely you are happy, and that's how the parking attendant and the gas station attendant feel. I often see them lacking smiles while on duty, try when they finish doing their job we thank you, surely they will be much easier to smile. At least to those of us who thank you.

I wrote this paper because of my shame towards the kindergarten children I met, they taught me to use those 3 magic words again. Hopefully as such I am much calmer

live this life and hopefully you can also live a beautiful life using these 3 words.